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This is here because tagging "naked lesbians" brings in the most readers.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/lesbian-kiss-lesbian-culture-9115779-250-350.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lesbian-kiss-lesbian-culture-9115779-250-350</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/lesbian-long-ago-21.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lesbian- long ago 2</image:title><image:caption>Who wants to get dressed up like this with me and go on a date?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/nude-sappho.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Nude Sappho</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/551px-sappho_and_erinna_in_a_garden_at_mytilene.jpg</image:loc><image:title>551px-Sappho_and_Erinna_in_a_Garden_at_Mytilene</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/two-women-standing.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Two women standing</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/lesbian-long-ago-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lesbian- long ago 2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-12-15T11:01:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2013/02/10/my-fight-with-panic-disorder-part-ii-gwin-and-marijuana/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/naked-l-four.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Naked L four</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/dont_panic.png</image:loc><image:title>Dont_Panic</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-03-01T01:48:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2013/02/03/my-fight-with-panic-disorder-part-i/</loc><lastmod>2013-02-08T14:21:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2013/01/06/renewal-and-re-invention-of-yourself/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/art-answers-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Art Answers - 1</image:title><image:caption>I need to take one of these Expressive Art workshops. Lynn and I want to find a way to merge our talents - art and writing - and build community. Now that's reinvention and renewal at its best.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/art-answers-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Art Answers - 2</image:title><image:caption>More workshop art from Art Answers Expressive Art Workshop</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/art-answers-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Art Answers - 3</image:title><image:caption>Another method of renewal - Expressive Art, led by my friend and artist Lynn Rosario of Art Answers. 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Man, this is Central Park!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/manhattan-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Manhattan 1</image:title><image:caption>Sometimes, a dream comes true</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-12-27T00:44:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/12/08/3-revisions-6-revisions-try-16-years-of-revisions/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/snoopy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>snoopy</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/bart-simpson-generator3.gif</image:loc><image:title>bart-simpson-generator3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/revisionangst.jpg</image:loc><image:title>revisionangst</image:title><image:caption>Just "angst" period.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-12-27T00:39:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/11/24/the-twisty-turn-y-journey-of-my-career/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/coins3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Coins</image:title><image:caption>We count your money to make sure you have the right amount.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/coins2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>coins</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/coins1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>coins</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/coins.jpg</image:loc><image:title>coins</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-12-01T22:43:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/11/12/i-went-to-church-and-there-was-no-bible/</loc><lastmod>2014-11-18T12:31:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/10/07/redheaded-angel/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/70s-blond-shag.jpg</image:loc><image:title>70s blond shag</image:title><image:caption>Her hair also looked kind of like this but not as long in the back - and red.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/70s-shag-hair-cut.jpg</image:loc><image:title>70s shag hair cut</image:title><image:caption>Here hair looked kind of like this but red.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-11-01T01:44:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/08/25/the-women-i-would-marry-2/</loc><lastmod>2012-09-04T13:53:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/07/29/water-bottles-a-monologue/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/tmicirclelogo1.png</image:loc><image:title>tmicirclelogo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/tmicirclelogo.png</image:loc><image:title>tmicirclelogo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-11-01T01:51:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/02/17/live-lesbians-dancing/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/lesbian-dance-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lesbian Dance 1</image:title><image:caption>These ladies do it old school</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/lesbian-dance-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lesbian dance 2</image:title><image:caption>Real Lesbians of Greater Boston</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-07-29T00:31:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/06/30/im-a-bed-writer/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/2161.jpg</image:loc><image:title>216</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/216.jpg</image:loc><image:title>216</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/possessed-cats1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Possessed cats</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/06/possessed-cats.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Possessed cats</image:title><image:caption>Who wouldn't want to spend more time with these two sweethearts?</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-07-23T14:02:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/06/18/this-is-what-i-spared-you-on-fathers-day/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-21T16:18:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/06/16/take-two-megs-huff-it-up-with-joy-and-mix-in-a-yoo/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-18T21:35:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/06/02/secret-facebook-sex-conversation-revealed/</loc><lastmod>2012-06-18T02:43:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/05/20/on-a-perfect-day-i-want-what-i-have/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/kitchen.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Kitchen</image:title><image:caption>This is our family.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-05-22T20:55:11+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/05/12/publishing-failure-and-she-was-just-seventeen/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/lifebridge1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lifebridge</image:title><image:caption>This is the Lifebridge Sanctuary near Rosendale New York. I think I'd try to sneak in here for the workshop even if I wasn't a writer.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/lifebridge.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lifebridge</image:title><image:caption>Even if I weren't a writer, I'd tried to sneak into this workshop just for the scenery. This is the LIfebridge Sanctuary near Rosendale, NY.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-05-31T23:48:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/05/02/remember-to-label-your-bras/</loc><lastmod>2012-05-03T00:23:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/04/28/2012-so-far-50-so-far/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/803.jpg</image:loc><image:title>803</image:title><image:caption>Subway card for NYC transit. Been there, done that. No shit.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/882.jpg</image:loc><image:title>882</image:title><image:caption>Chicago, through a cab window, at night, on my way to a reading!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/061.jpg</image:loc><image:title>061</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/076.jpg</image:loc><image:title>076</image:title><image:caption>Cindy in her RAIN tee shirt, and by the way, this is how she looked two weeks before she turned 50. She hadn't done her hair yet. Give her a break.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/016.jpg</image:loc><image:title>016</image:title><image:caption>The first gift at 50 - A writer's studio in the center of town.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/014.jpg</image:loc><image:title>014</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/031.jpg</image:loc><image:title>031</image:title><image:caption>A view from a cemetery in Woodstock. Why? I don't know. Because I could.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/026.jpg</image:loc><image:title>026</image:title><image:caption>Woodstock, NY. Or, as I like to refer to it; Westcliffe, CO without the elevation sickness.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-05-03T23:27:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/04/15/a-great-read-about-alcoholism-lesbians-triumph-and-sex/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/bufford-novel.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bufford novel</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-05-30T17:25:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/02/24/the-place-that-transformed-my-life-solstice-mfa-in-creative-writing/</loc><lastmod>2012-02-24T17:43:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/02/23/this-is-what-you-need-to-be-reading-for-2-99/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/one-writers-big-innings.jpg</image:loc><image:title>One Writer's Big Innings</image:title><image:caption>Read this wonderful, award winning essay</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-02-24T00:51:34+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/02/19/kindness-grows-geometrically/</loc><lastmod>2012-02-21T23:07:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2011/04/03/all-that-remains/</loc><lastmod>2023-12-18T20:37:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/02/09/how-many-facebook-friends-have-you-done-it-with/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/algebra1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>algebra</image:title><image:caption>Yes, 4 in 2004 and C(rushes) = 12. Solving for k. Whatever.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/number-cruncher2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Number Cruncher</image:title><image:caption>My hero</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/cigaretttes.jpg</image:loc><image:title>cigaretttes</image:title><image:caption>I smoked all of these</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/algebra.jpg</image:loc><image:title>algebra</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/number-cruncher1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Number Cruncher</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-07-08T23:03:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/01/28/art-or-porn/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/20120128-113056.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20120128-113056.jpg</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-07-23T04:47:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/01/22/whats-in-a-butchs-purse/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/coins.jpg</image:loc><image:title>coins</image:title><image:caption>At the bottom of my butch's purse</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/stone-butch-blues.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Stone Butch Blues</image:title><image:caption>One of the most beautiful books you could ever read</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/handbags2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Handbags2</image:title><image:caption>These aren't big enough to hold all my stuff.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/handbags.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Handbags</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/cindy-in-tank.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cindy in tank</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-04-03T00:21:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/01/15/moments-fine-and-not-so-much/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/rihanna-feat-britney-spears-sm-remix-lyrics.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Rihanna feat. Britney Spears - S&amp;M (Remix) Lyrics</image:title><image:caption>Well, maybe if it had been these two...</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2012-01-21T13:11:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2012/01/01/the-year-in-pictures-and-thoughts/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/whidbey2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Whidbey2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/whidbey1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Whidbey1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/cindy-the-fish.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Cindy the fish</image:title><image:caption>Cindy The Fish, RIP</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/wet-mountain-group.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Wet Mountain group</image:title><image:caption>The Dorothy Allison portion of Wet Mountain Valley Writers</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/100_0015.jpg</image:loc><image:title>100_0015</image:title><image:caption>Westcliffe, CO in August.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/collapsing-in-dorm-room.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Collapsing in dorm room</image:title><image:caption>Me, Suzanne, Lil' Gee collapsing in a dorm room at Pine Manor College</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/mia-on-futon1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mia on futon</image:title><image:caption>Mia, contentment does not come easy</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/timmy-on-counter-close-up.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Timmy on counter close up</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/sweetie.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sweetie</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/winter-20111.jpg</image:loc><image:title>winter 2011</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-01-03T18:05:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2011/10/23/david-pray/</loc><lastmod>2012-02-19T04:07:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2011/07/02/luggage-and-baggage/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/whidbey-land-view.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Whidbey Land View</image:title><image:caption>Whidbey Island</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/puget-sound.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Puget Sound</image:title><image:caption>Puget Sound</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2011-07-13T10:21:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2011/06/19/marriage-is-for-illiterates/</loc><lastmod>2012-02-20T02:12:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2011/05/16/gee-whiz-how-could-i-have-forgotten/</loc><lastmod>2011-05-17T00:00:19+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2011/05/15/totally-psyched/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/why-weight1.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Why Weight</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/why-weight.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Why Weight Fitness</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2012-02-11T14:30:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2011/02/13/sabbatical/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/bunny-2-12-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bunny 2 12 11</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/sweeties-last-week-still-beautiful.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sweetie's last week, still beautiful</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2011-02-18T00:53:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2011/01/22/my-ailing-beauty/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/sweetie-pretty2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sweetie pretty</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/sweetie-pretty1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sweetie pretty</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/sweetie-pretty.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Sweetie pretty</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-03-04T02:20:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2010/12/20/running-up-the-escalator/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/prince-for-blog2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Prince for blog</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2011-01-03T13:15:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://cindyzelman.com/2010/11/11/is-it-just-me/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://cindyzelman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/let-it-bleed.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Let it 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